Monday 8 July 2013

From a Distance





Two weeks and twelve thousand miles away from home and what was so important before is much less important now. No more scraping frost off the car, no more traffic queues to work in the morning, no more work!

But some things do not fade away with distance. Such as the ongoing media nastiness about Bob Parker’s situation. Intense pressure these past few days and weeks (maybe even years!) has got too much for him and he’s exhausted. Who can blame him, new revelations every day about some fresh communication breakdown inside the council? Combined with continued media attacks, relentless, enough to wear anyone down. He’s borne it all with the sort of statesmanlike leadership we saw after the earthquakes – calm authority, telling us what he has been told is the truth. From what I’ve seen of Bob, he’s straight up. He wouldn’t lie.

But The Press continues to be unrelenting. The day after his announcement not to stand for election, there were two pages of “Mainlander” criticism of Bob and the council they chose not to pull. And now, whenever they refer to his decision, they imply he stood down because early indications The Press poll results showed his popularity had declined. And there’s a whole lot more nastiness that doesn’t bear repeating.

A lot of people asked me ‘Why don’t you stand for the council? We need people like you.’

You’ve got to be kidding. Who would want to be a councillor – let alone a mayor – when everybody, from the local rag to the local whingers, see you as fair game for snide remarks and downright slander. I’ve always stuck up for The Press, it was my training ground after all, but it seems to have become a source of major negativity in our town. How long before the honeymoon’s over and Lianne gets the same treatment? Six months? Less?

I had a very small experience of this negativity when I carried out the council audit. I was fair game for the naysayers, The Press and its many columnists included. But what I went through then was nothing compared to what the Mayor has had to put up with lately.

True, he’s not perfect. True, his decision to trust his management team may have come back to bite him. But for heaven’s sake, let the whingeing stop!

There is a small glimmer of hope: you kick a man when he’s down and people go to his rescue, stand up for him even. And the online nastiness eventually self corrects. I hope that’s soon.